I do a lot of my work in cafes. I’m in a pretty serious relationship, so when I go out to a cafe I really do go to work. However, I did at one time have a career as a notorious player, so I’m always evaluating situations to see how to best approach a pick up. I’ve come up with four bits of information that will be of use to any man interested in picking up in these venues, and they concern the body language signals that girls send when they want you to hit on them.

This can be hard to interpret if the cafe is packed, but if there’s plenty of seating and she sits near you, there is a good chance that she wants you to hit on her. This move can be quite obvious so what you’ll sometimes see happen is that you’ll go to use the bathroom and then when you come back, a girl who was sitting in another seat will now be sitting near you. If there’s a girl in the cafe who digs you, but there either isn’t a seat near you or she doesn’t want to send an obvious signal

I can’t count how many times I’ve had a girl look over at me and then go back to her work while arching her back and sticking her chest out. You’ll also see it with girls who just walked in and are waiting to order at the counter. They scan the cafe, see a guy they like and then start putting on this sexual display. These girls may not be speaking, but they are sending one signal loud and clear, ‘Look at my ass and tits!’

Sometimes this will be accompanied by sliding in and out of her shoes a little bit. The feet point to what’s on her mind. If a girl is already sitting down when you arrive at a cafe and you want to figure out if she’s interested, pay attention to her feet. If she likes you, she’ll often shift her feet to point in your direction. It’s common that a girl who is doing 3 or 4 will then do 2 when you go up to the counter. Girls who do 1 are often doing 4 as well.